Hi. My name is Susan. Have you noticed a lot of people post a bunch of unrealistic BS on these dating sites? We list all these things about requirements and expectations on finding our One True Love. We are here because we are looking for dates. Yeah, sure, we all want to find that Perfect Soul Mate that God or Fate or whatever has chosen for us. But let's face facts, that hardly ever happens. And it damn sure doesn't usually happen with the first person who asks you out. I use to fool myself into thinking that was how it should work and ended up in relationships that got stale pretty fast.