I'm that mythical "nice guy." I really do get it.. If I tell you I'm going to call at 8, I call at 8.. If I'm 5 minutes late I apologize.. I go out of my way to help my friends. If you need something I can do I'll drop everything to do it for you. If you need to talk about it I'll listen. I understand that sometimes you just want to be held.. me too. People also think I'm a good deal more conservative than I am.. You can't always tell a book by it's cover.. I have a definite naughty streak but I am polite and a little reserved. If I don't know someone I tend to err on the side of caution.