Some men are naturally blessed with both good looks and no small amount of charm. They just seem to exude it at every step and have women flocking to them. But for the rest of us, that remains a seemingly unattainable fantasy. For the average man, meeting a seriously hot girl and charming her off her feet is a lifelong dream that only very few get to actually fulfill.
Fear not however, for there are ways to meet and charm any hottie, any day or night. Below is a list of tips and how-to’s of meeting and charming beautiful women whenever you want.
1. Have the correct attitude towards meeting women
The foremost part of meeting women is definitely to have the right attitude. You should have a clear purpose in mind and not be dwindling on your fantasies. Being socially adept is important as well. Some men are simply born with the art of good communication while the rest stare clueless at their success.
To develop good communication skills, you must first be outgoing and more social. This does not mean aggression. Being too aggressive can be off putting. Another very common mistake made by most men is that they develop the completely wrong sense of purpose. Do not dive into it simply with the purpose of picking up girls. When you go at it with such an attitude, you will probably appear more desperate and less worth a woman’s attention, which is basically social death.
Go with the attitude of meeting women but having a great time for yourself as well. This will make you more open-minded, a lot more sociable and quite approachable and attractive to other women.
2. When to meet women
Almost every man out there, who goes out with the purpose of meeting women, does so at night. This can be fruitful but night is the default time to have fun and let loose so the volume of men out with the same purpose will be a lot higher. Plus most hot women are in party mode at night so getting the attention of the pretty ladies will be difficult.
It is better then, to meet women during the day when there will be better chances for long, proper conversations without distractions.
3. Where to meet women
The places to meet women are also important to note because meeting girls in bars and clubs may not work for you unless your communication skills are excellent. Fortunately there are alternative places to meet good looking women. Below is a list of 4 such places.
Health food bars
Women are more concerned about their health nowadays than ever before and chances are you will never see a gorgeous woman walk out of some fast food restaurant.
Visiting such bars will project an image of self-care, which will be appealing to women.
Gym/Yoga studios
As with healthy dieting, women are getting more into physical fitness and yoga as well therefore it’s a good idea to frequent exercise establishments.
Just don’t approach a hot, sweaty woman right in the middle of a workout session when they’re too busy focusing on the workout to pay any heed to you.
Cafés
Coffee shops and cafés are regularly frequented by younger women to relax with a hot beverage, something that puts their mind at ease and makes them more susceptible to approach.
You will need to respect the calm ambience of the venue though and refrain from being too aggressive.
Bookstores
This is specifically for men who like their women a bit more erudite as well as stunning. A large number of beautiful women regularly visit bookstores and the choices of reading material are an excellent conversation starter.
Additionally you will have more deep conversations here than anywhere else and you can use that connection to smoothly transition into flirting.
Conclusion
The best way though, to meet and charm world class hotties is by going with the flow and not planning out anything in advance. Simply having a positive attitude and good communication will usually ensure success in all your charming efforts.